I've been noticing that a lot of people I know are retiring. I guess it is that time of my life. People my age are retiring.
When I was a kid birthdays were the big party event. In elementary school I remember going to many of my friends birthdays. W, e would spend an inordinate amount of time discussing, planning and attending birthday parties. Having the best birthday party ever was always the plan. It never lived up to that ideal. I could never talk my parents into building a go-cart track in the back yard for the party. Sigh!
Later in Junior High we were more interested in boy & girl parties. There me and my buddies saw a darkened living room with "The First Time Ever I Saw Your Face" or even "American Pie" playing and hoping not to hear " Gilbert O'Sullavan "Alone Again (Naturally).
Then the big party was prom in High School. Oh we had plans....but as in most of life the expectations never live up to the reality.
We did have parties in college but the memory of them seem a little vague. Not sure why.
The we had wedding related parties. Bachelor parties, Bridal showers, Wedding showers,
Weddings and receptions. All lots of fun and very fancy.
After the wedding parties, sometimes surprisingly soon after there were baby showers. And then we are back at birthday parties. Only now we are bearing the cost and drying the tears from too much cake and fun.
So now I'm attending retirement parties. Some
go into the parties excited (like me) at the prospect of a new chapter of their life. Others with a little trepidation at entering the unknown.
I have an idea of the next set of parties in my life but am in no hurry to get there.
With my retirement looming I feel that I need an activity, a reason to get up in the morning. A quest to give my life meaning. I've been puttering around the house the last few days. Cleaning and arranging things around the house. Moving stuff from one place to another to create what I imagine is order in my life. I'm beginning to realize I've got about as much order in my life as I want. I have found that my most creative ideas come from the chaos around me. So L'm going to take a different route. Last night I was watching "The Hobbit" and thought a quest is what I need. A quest is what it is then. But unfortunately there is no Smaug for me to battle. Using Bilbo Baggins and the Hobbits as my guide on this quest I decided that meals should be part of this retirement quest. Here is my plan. A Quest " Seafood Resturants I'm Goina Eat At " Some of these places I have already eaten at but they deserve a second try. Others are new to me and ...
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